Wednesday, February 26, 2025
I don’t even know where to begin because, at one point, Derek and I were always together, we went to football games (go Raiders!), we’d watch the Giants play at Smoke Eaters, cheering them on when they were at their best. We ate burritos and tacos all over the east side, listened to Tupac, and I would try to force Youbg Jeezy on him, I even burned him a CD he was forced to listen to! There seriously was always something going on.
Derek was even my client when I worked at the bank, and without fail, he’d always bring me Starbucks. He loved making fun of me about almost everything, but never in a mean way—it was always in good fun. We laughed so much together. He was someone I could count on, whether it was during our heartbreaks or happy moments. A lot of heartbreaks now that I think about it. We were two kids who loved love… And though I truly loved spending time with him, Ryan, and the boys, Derek was for sure one of the ones I was closest to. He always made sure I was included, inviting me everywhere, never letting me feel out of place.
Some of my favorite memories are our Sunday-fundays at Chris' and John’s house, and our taco dates with Pete, Saira, and me. We always had something going on. And I don’t know why life got so busy, why we went our separate ways, why I never got to see him again or say goodbye. That’s something I’ll always carry with me.
My deepest condolences go out to his family, especially his mom. Ryan, I can’t imagine what it’s like to continue life without your twin, but never doubt that Derek will always be with you.
Dmun, Baby Boy, you will always be remembered and loved. I’ll think of you every time I drive my old Yaris and laugh, just like you did when you and Pete borrowed it to go to LA, because you couldn’t believe the speedometer wasn’t behind the steering wheel. You really made me laugh and you’re a vital piece of my better days. I’m sorry life was so hard for you, and I’m even more sorry that I didn’t get to say goodbye.
Rest easy, Baby Boy. I’ll miss you always.
