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Russell Wyatt posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, August 4, 2025
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George Papageorge posted a condolence
Monday, June 30, 2025
Reflections on Alda Wyatt: by George Papageorge
I am honored to share my reflections today with what is on my HEART regarding a foundational part of my childhood …
which came in the form of THE MOM of MY BEST FRIEND.
Mrs. Wyatt is what is RIGHT about one’s childhood…
(By the way, we greeted her as Mrs. Wyatt but referred to her among our friend group as ‘Alda’… somehow instinctively we knew she was one of a kind.)
My reflections on Alda Wyatt...
I felt 3 things when in the presence of Alda.
1. I felt seen: Alda was sure to greet me, ask genuine questions about me, inquire how my parents were doing, and always made sure she knew that she could distinguish me from my twin brother. (most of the non-twin world would not bother with that). Her questions and her eyes were both inquisitive – Because of Alda - I felt seen!
2. I felt worth it: The conversations we exchanged seemed so energized with genuine interest. She was one of the few ‘grown-ups’ who focused in with that kind of interest and curiosity - Because of Alda - I felt worth it!
3. I felt happy: I knew no mother who laughed as often and as loudly as Alda. She filled the room with a joyful, quick-witted banter; her laugh will live on in my memory forever. Because of Alda – I smile at the thought of her, even at this very moment.
To Rick, Randy, and Russell - the 3 gentlemen of Broadmoor - raised by 2 amazing parents, Yancy and Alda- they are now together praying for us all. I pray we all feel comforted by that.
Randy- You are my best friend because you do for me all things I mentioned above about your mom. She lives on!
Thank you, Alda, for always being who you were….
It played a part in us kids having permission to be who we are!
Memory Eternal Alda Wyatt.
George Papageorge
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John Stolk posted a condolence
Monday, June 30, 2025
A Letter to Alda from John Stolk
Dear Mrs. Wyatt,
You’ve been gone for a while now but I’m writing to you because I still feel your presence and spirit in my life. A lifetime of loving memories gathered over more than half a century reside in me and the lessons you taught to be strong, independent, kind, generous and forgiving still help to guide me. With the passing of time memories grow dimmer and conversations are lost, yet snapshots linger in my mind and some images remain as vivid as if they were lived just yesterday.
As a young boy I can still picture you sitting in your lounge chair on Heather Lane talking to one of your many friends on a standard old Bakelite Bell Telephone with the receiver cradled in a shoulder rest so that your neck would remain comfortable while freeing up your hands to multitask. In the afternoon after school, you would tell Randy, Russell and I to “go outside and play” but not until we had raided the refrigerator for some ice cream or a Hostess Ho-Ho or Ding-Dong for a snack. Your constant presence was comforting and made us feel safe while encouraging freedom and independence.
Having chased us outside to play you would eventually have to yell out at us that it was time to come back inside. We would invariably ignore your call and continue the battle in whatever sports competition we were engaged in. At some point, having reached the boundary of your patience a loud “Randall Craig” would erupt from the back door and interrupt our fun. Although Randy would protest and try to continue the game, I knew it was time for me to head for home. As a child this regular after-school routine made me feel like a member of the family- almost like a 4th brother to Rick, Randy and Russell. Your loving hospitality felt natural and with time I came to greatly value and appreciate how special it was to be accepted so fully. It is a gift I cherish and benefit from to this day. Thank-you.
Your generosity and presence extended well beyond immediate family and friends into the greater Broadmoor community. I recall Cub Scout meetings in your garage, regular attendance at Holy Angels Catholic Church, your elementary school teaching (4th grade), as well as the preschool at Broadmoor Presbyterian Church where my family attended. In addition, you were involved in a philanthropy associated with your sorority Beta Sigma Phi (ΒΣΦ) a female non-collegiate, non-sectarian sorority in Daly City that supported local community charities and was dedicated to cultural and educational enrichment.
Most significantly, however, I remember your close friendship with my mother, Els. In the early days of your friendship, I recall you helping my mother who was a recent immigrant from Holland via Canada integrate into the American culture and way of life. One memory I have is of my mom sending me to elementary school in shorts despite the often cold and foggy Daly City weather. This was custom in Europe at the time but it opened me up to teasing in our new home in the US. You gently suggested to her that perhaps long pants would be more appropriate and soon I was sporting long pants along with all the others. Thank you Mrs. Wyatt!!!
In more recent times, my mom always loved making the trip down to visit you in Hollister in her Toyota SUV and I would hear about the many SCRABBLE games you two played together. You would sometimes have to tell her to be quiet for a few minutes so that you could figure out your next word play. After mom passed away, you and I would sometimes reminisce and laugh about how she enjoyed talking even more than you- which was no mean feat, believe me! She would sometimes bring Kylie and/or Laney with her as she loved showing off her two granddaughters to you. Randy also recently reminded me of how she stayed with you for several weeks after your hip surgery to help you recover but also just to enjoy your company.
Your lifelong marriage to Mr. Wyatt intertwined the threads of our families even further, as my father and Yancy shared various sports activities together, including tennis, golf and jogging just as Randy and I did. These varied aspects of your life and activities do not represent the sum total of who you were but they give a sense of the unique and special friend you were to me, my family and many others.
Just like my mom, I loved coming to visit you in Hollister. I remember many conversations on your couch in front of the TV that often began with some version of “when are you going to get married”. This opening would then evolve into a wide range of interesting topics where opinions were shared that were salted with wisdom and humor. You held rock-solid beliefs that were grounded in truth and faith, held firm convictions on what was right and fair, and what was not, yet it always struck me how non-judgmental you were. Furthermore, you didn’t feel the need to prove anything to anyone. Your forgiving nature and ability to laugh at your own foibles as well as those of others is a lesson in grace that I strive to live up to.
One of my favorite Hollister memories revolves around a visit when I brought my friend Sue down to meet you for the first time. I was aware that your memory was perhaps no longer at 100% but was stunned when you greeted me with “Who are you???” followed by “GO AWAY” then abruptly closing the door in our faces. I looked over at Sue in shocked disbelief and wondered what to do next. After an uncomfortable pause, the door opened once again and there you were laughing with a gleam in your eye welcoming us both in and giving me a big hug. This wicked sense of humor is definitely something Randy inherited from you and that I cherish.
Over the years, my many trips to visit you at your home on Kane Drive gave me a fuller appreciation of your strength and no-nonsense attitude and the foundation from which it arose. Meeting Bobby and Gene and their families and hearing about your father and mother and your early years on the Acquistapace ranch showed the thread that connected you with the rest of your family heritage. Seeing photos of you as a beautiful young woman- a ranch girl who went off to college, met Yancy, got married, raised 3 boys and built a life speaks to your courage and independence in making your own way in the world while still remaining rooted in family and place. Ultimately it was your connection with family and friends that mattered most.
I started this letter by addressing you as “Mrs. Wyatt”. As I grew older I never transitioned to using “Alda” even though you asked and suggested it was OK. Over the years it became an inside joke between us but in truth, grew out of a deep sense of respect and admiration for the role you played in my life. You were like a second mother to me passing on your knowledge and ethical code with a wisdom that has resonated far beyond my childhood days. Judging by the group of neighborhood kids that often gathered to play at the Wyatt home, I clearly wasn’t the only one who benefitted and felt this way.
I wish you were still here Mrs. Wyatt, yet I know life is finite and everyone has to exit sooner or later. Still, I cannot help but wanting to hear you jokingly ask me “now when are you going to get married?” just one more time. You are one of my heroes. I miss you and will never forget you.
Love,
John (Stolk)
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Cynthia M. Bonne Tallent posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 3, 2024
Dear Wyatt Family,
For many years Alda was my mother's (Sharon M. Boone) best friend and I adored her. Having grown up down the street from Heather Road in Broadmoor Village, I saw her almost daily on my walks home from school. My memory is also vivid in that Alda watched us at her home on a few occasions while my mother was out running errands and I remember Russell pouring milk over his ice cream while we were there. When I asked why he did that, she merely stated, "he just does weird stuff like that." Ha!
When I was 13, Alda gave me a necklace with a heart and a birthstone - so precious - I still have it. Alda will be in my heart forever and will be missed dearly. I hope she and my mother are drinking tea in heaven!
Love, Cynthia M. Boone Tallent
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Jim Baugher posted a condolence
Thursday, August 29, 2024
What a beautiful story of my Aunt Alda. One story that has always had a warm spot in my heart was when I was attending San Francisco State. I was visiting one evening at their home and Aunt Alda said to me, "Jimmy, tell me anything you want me to fix you for dinner and a date you want to come over". I said, "Lasagna". It took me by surprise as no one other than my mother had ever asked me what I wanted for dinner. 46 years later I can still smell and taste how wonderful Aunt Alda's Lasagna special dinner was. Aunt Alda was a unique person who knew how to make people feel special. Uncle Yancy, Aunt Alda and their three boys, Ricky, Randy and Russell always made me feel welcome in their home and I will always cherish the time we spent together.
Jim, Jimmy, James (depending on which Wyatt I'm talking with) I answer to all three.
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Joan and Dave Storman posted a condolence
Saturday, August 17, 2024
Alda and I met when we were both young mothers raising our children. We became fast friends and got well acquainted as the years went by. Alda and Yancy had three boys and Dave and I had three girls ! And happily we all got along so well. Our two families had many fun camping vacations together - first time camping for all of us. Alda had a great spirit and was willing to go along with whatever new adventure we thought of. I will miss her dearly and the great talks we had over the years. Sending love and blessings to her boys Joan and Dave Storman
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Shannon Ingraham uploaded photo(s)
Friday, August 16, 2024
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Oh how the memories of family never fade,they stay with us in our hearts. These photos are of family at family reunions,mostly,love you great aunt Alda !!!!!
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Deidra lit a candle
Friday, August 16, 2024
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My (Great) Aunt Alda was always someone I looked forward to seeing. Firmly kind, she believed that being good to each other was the most important thing we can do in life. Her laugh was like tinkling drops of joyous rain. Always ready to do the right thing, Aunt Alda was the very definition of a Great Lady. My Great Aunt Alda, her advice, her laugh, her hugs, her love, and her sassy jokes are all very sorely missed already. We love you Aunt Alda, and thanks for blessing the world with your lovely self. <3
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Shannon Ingraham uploaded photo(s)
Friday, August 16, 2024
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Well I remember so many fond memories of Aunt Alda . Mostly at family reunions or when Grandpa and grandma would bring Shelley and I over for visits,her laugh and smile both very contagious,in good ways.
The last couple of times I was visiting over at Alda's house we talked a lot about family and how it was important to her. She would always ask how my children and grandchildren were doing,well July 28th I believe,I had my 6th grandchild !!! She would of loved to met him.
Well Aunt Alda I will miss you always,love Shannon.
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Ron Bolt posted a condolence
Monday, August 12, 2024
I always looked forward to seeing my Aunt Alda -- as a kid and as an adult. Whether at her place, my parents' place or some other place, she took time to talk and laugh with me.
Nephew Ron Bolt
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Yvette M. Nunes lit a candle
Monday, August 12, 2024
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OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH AND YOUR FAMILY DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME.
MY MOM VIVIAN DORIS CANDLEN WAS DIAS WAS ALDA'S BEST FRIEND IN HIGH SCHOOL SHE WAS GODMOTHER TO ONE OF HER SONS. SHE WAS ALSO THE MAID OF OF HONOR AT MY MOM AND DADS WEDDING WHEN MY MOM MARRIED MY DAD TOM CANDLEN. SHE HAS A LOT OF GOOD MEMORIES OF YOUR MOM. SHE WAS A WONDERFUL LADY. I REMEMBER HER AS WELL AND YOUR DAD YANCY. THEY ARE TOGETHER NOW.
MAY YOU FIND COMFORT IN KNOW SHE IS IN PEACE AND WITH THE LORD.
VIVIAN D. CANDLEN (DIAS)
KAROLE CANDLEN MY OLDER SISTER
YVETTE MICHELLE NUNES AND FAMILY (CANDLEN
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Lily Liu planted a tree in memory of Alda Wyatt
Sunday, August 11, 2024
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Carolyn Garcia posted a condolence
Friday, August 9, 2024
Very sorry to hear about Alda. She truly was a wonderful person.
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Shannon Ingraham uploaded photo(s)
Friday, August 9, 2024
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Love you Aunt Alda ,the last tim that we saw you,I enjoyed it very much,laughter smiling and family time is always important,
Love Shannon.
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Janet Downing posted a condolence
Thursday, August 8, 2024
As a kid, I always remember going to Uncle Yancy and Aunt Alda’s house in Colma for New Year’s Day. We always did sparklers in the backyard. She was such a great hostess. I always felt so welcome. Years later going to their house after reunions was so fun. She always loved to laugh and have a great time. I will miss her hospitality and great times together.
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Shelley Orr posted a condolence
Thursday, August 8, 2024
My favorite memory was seeing the excitement in Aunt Aldas eyes when she would see family at reunions and when visiting with her. She always wanted to know how life was treating us and was full of advice. Memories will last a lifetime. Love and miss you Aunt Alda.
Shelley and family
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The family of Alda Mary Wyatt uploaded a photo
Tuesday, August 6, 2024
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